As we go about our daily life we can see parents correcting their children in front of other people, we can even find children correcting their parents in front of others. Most think they are doing this for the good of the other person, but tell me please what good does it do to correct another person in front of others?
When we look back at our childhood it won't take us long to figure out, or re-discover where someone robbed us of our power correcting us in front of another. No matter how big or how little the incident it's still the same, especially in a child's mind.
People that feel the need to micro manage and tell everyone what they are doing wrong in front of an audiance are insecure and lack the confidence in themselves. The reason for the public display of confidence and ruling under a magnifying glass is because these people lack the ability to know what their true power feels like. Of course they would because for so many years it had been taken from them.
Be patient and kind the next time someone wants to tell you something in front of others what you are doing wrong or even a better way to do it. They are simply exhibiting power where it doesn't belong because their own boundaries have been violated, so of course they are going to violate, or try to violate yours.
These people will take credit for things said and done as if it were them that said and did them. They will make decisions for other people in order to feel the power of making the choice for another, rather than giving the person the responsibility them self to make such a decision.
No matter how big or how small the choice is, it is always the person that has to make the choice that has the biggest lesson to learn. When we take their choice away, we are taking their lesson and creating Karma for ourselves.
Now I'm not talking about telling someone to be careful or to stop doing something that may be harmful to themselves or others.
So get the hell out of the way and allow people to do what they do best, be human. It is a choice they made to be so.
Awareness opens the possibility for Alignment and the Willingness to Release. Free yourself of illusions within YOUR reality. What are you creating that makes you feel disempowered?
