I was watching this show called "Chopped" last night. There was this one chef that was really arrogant and thought he knew it all and said how much better he was than everyone else. Well on the first round this guy got chopped. As they were interviewing him on his way out he had tears in his eyes and he said, "I've always had to work extra hard at having anything in my life. I've always had to work harder than the next guy and I still get screwed. Every time I have it in my mind that something is going to work out for me it never ever happens."
Wow! And that's so interesting because right before that I had just shared with my husband how thins would come so easily and successful for me. But I had a part of the puzzle worked out.
First, this guy on chopped, as I said was extremely negative. He was talking bad about all the other contestants and talked about how "deserving" he was. Like no one else was? That no one else wanted it as bad as you did?
Second, this guy said, "No matter how much this is in my mind I always lose". And there you go.
You see when I was working my process just before this show I realized that when I as in my heart and saw the end result of what I wanted, not winning, or taking over another, but what I really wanted then it always happened for me. And it's happening for others folks that I do processes with as well.
As in Higher Mind, Lower Mind, we have it all backwards. And as you've read in this blog I've been able to hear that voice when I've needed money tell me, "Velvete's you already had the money, that happened first before your need for it." Mind blowing but true.
So if it's all backwards then we have it all backwards as well. That's why people are going around claiming that there is nothing that you can do about your life, because like this man they haven't figured it out. They still struggle in manifesting because they are in their head.
I'm going to give you the most wonderful and exciting information today that you've ever had. This information you can apply in your life and start watching the miracles unfold. Now my students and clients have already seen this happen and have even witnessed in the lives of friends and family, why? Because there is really only one in your illusion.
Okay, so I thought about this formula and realized just how easy it was. I had to go back into my childhood to see how I had done this over and over again. I realized that when I had the end in mind without all the junk in the middle that's when things would happen for me.
When I was a marketing director I would pray for God to remove me from that J.O.B. but then I noticed that God would ask, "Well what do you want?" LOL, you have to laugh...for those of you that read this blog know I get asked that a lot. LOL
With all my might I told God I wanted to do something that helped people, and to help them feel good about themselves and relaxed. I told God that I wanted to work for myself and be able to contribute to the household very nicely, that I knew that I could do this without killing myself.
Ask and you shall receive! Within weeks, it might have been days, everything began to unfold. Now I had no control over when this or that was going to happen. I had no control over how I was going to feel when I lost that job and I had no control over it when things opened up for me.
You see God is just asking us "what do you want" so that he can fill in all the middle pieces. That's when you know it's your will and God's will working as one.
I have some students that have gotten so used to the "law of attraction" that they are going nuts giving up the middle pieces. I've got some people that say, "But it's not your will anyway and you don't have a choice in how you experience life." B&^^ S&$%#. You do have a choice and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
However, there is some true to choice. You only choose your ending. You only get to decided when you've had enough suffering, pain, loss, or whatever else is bringing you to that point of I give up.
You want to go back to school, then know why you want to go back to school and own that everything else will work out in the middle. Our youngest son came up for Christmas, he's been struggling since he left home and it was good to see him. So as he's talking about his struggles and how hard it's been since we cut him off I asked him, "What are you passionate about? What is it that brings you peace, joy, happiness and love whenever you think about it or do it?" He sat there with this look on his face and he said, "Let me think a minute." All of a sudden it was like the room lite up and he said, "Cooking".
As our son was telling us his story he said that cooking was always the one way that made him feel like he was helping others and that it made him happy when he could make someone happy through his food and decorating of it. I said to him then there you are. That's your passion and now everything else will unfold for you. All you have to do is keep that end goal in mind, don't worry about how you're going to do it, you'll be divinely guided.
He left Christmas day and Monday morning he called to tell us that he already had an interview and he had applied for 4 other schools. He said, "I don't know how I'm going to do this and work too." I said, "Keep your end in mind, don't worry about the middle." The very next day he called and he was laughing and he said, "Remember that process that we did? Can it really work that fast?". LOL, I had to laugh, everyone always ask me that. I said to him that it happens all the time. He shared with me that he was called to work for this company that he had applied with a year ago that would be at home work and would give him the flexibility that he needed to attend school. LOL, don't you just love it.
So when God is asking us "What do you want?" he's not asking us to define the whole thing, that's his job as the creator, your job is just to know where you're heart is taking you.
I realized that even in my own life God was allowing me to experience the contrast between the end and the middle. When I started massage therapy I was on fire, it was like all kinds of doors opened up for me when I lost that marketing job. But I really didn't lose anything, I really gained everything because all those things I said I told God I wanted happened.
But then I moved out here and I didn't know what I wanted. I thought I would experience this or that, but never knew what I wanted. I had gotten off track! I knew I still wanted to help people, but now I almost couldn't stand to be around people. I felt I was being smothered with needy people, people that had no boundaries. For Ten Years I've lived my life like that, coming and going, taking care of people I didn't want to take care of , rescuing others when I needed to save myself.
Then the light bulb went off! God asked me again, "What do you want?" I knew without a doubt what that was and now, now it's happening. I don't have to worry about how it's going to happen, that's the fun part. I don't have to worry about creating anything to make it happen, God's doing that. I don't have to sit and worry about am I doing it right, God's helping me there to.
The next time you want to make a vision board and say, "Okay I want all of this" then think about what is driving all of "this". What is the end goal, what do you want to experience, and what is your passion?
I had a very dear friend who was miserable at her job. She finally left it knowing that there was something better for her. When we would talk I never encouraged her to think about what she was going to do next, I just kept telling her what are you passionate about and that will manifest. Keep that in your mind and everything will unfold naturally. Well it sure did!
What about a relationship? Well it can happen just as fast there too. But what happens is what everyone puts in the middle. You see all you need to do is see the end results of that relationship in your mind, like the passion, beauty and love between you and another. Not what they are going to look like, feel like, sound like, be, and all those other things in the middle, that's God's job. Move out of the way and let Him design. And really He's so good at it. I mean just look at what else He's created.
You're only job is to let Him know what you want. So what if you want to win the lottery? Well, really you don't know that's what you want. You want the other stuff that winning the lottery brings. You want freedom, you want to spend money, you want to do whatever you want to do without worrying about where money is going to come from.
People win the lottery everyday and blow that money before they have a chance to know themselves with it. So why? Because their end was short, they could only see a little bit of the end.
I had a friend that did a process and said she knew she was going to win the lottery. I asked her what do you need or why do you want to win the lottery? She said so that I can pay off my mortgage and have extra money each month. LOL Okay, you guys, you'll love this. Well, she won the lottery because she got exactly what she asked for. She had an opportunity come up where she refinanced her home and while signing the papers they said, "Your mortgage is taken care of, don't worry about a thing." And because of this refinancing she received several hundred dollars a month extra in savings. LOL, you gotta love it.
So what is it in your life that you are still struggling with? Then this is the part of you that doesn't know what you want in the end. Think about that for a second.
God has always asked me, "What do you want?" and each time is no different I get exactly what I ask for. My dad used to say that I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth. And he called me lucky too. I loved my dad but he didn't raise me and I felt like we were from two different worlds. I couldn't understand why this didn't work for everyone. But once I saw "Chopped" last night I got it. You see those that feel they deserve people to take care of them, or that they take from others, or that they feel they can't have what everyone else has limits God within their lives. So to take from another is a sign that you don't believe in your own ability to be one with God. Some would disagree and would say, "I don't believe in God and things still work out for me."
Absolutely because God loves us so much He's not asking us to believe in Him, but to believe in ourselves. And to know what it is that your heart wants and let that guide you. That's why bad guys and good guys are all treated the same, and only when you think that that is unfair then YOU lose, no one else. Think about what you want, not what others have. Think about what you have, and not what others don't have. Think of the abundance you are by looking all around you and seeing there is not one empty space, not even the sky. During the day it might look empty but that's only because you can't see it because of the sun. LOL....you got it?
I love myself and I love making myself laugh. I know today's blog will help you manifest.
Belief Statement: When it rains I feel refreshed because I know that God is allowing time to rest and heal while gaining confidence and losing confusion.
Spirit Statement: I am the rain that is refreshing knowing God is allowing rest and healing with confidence in focus.
You see God is the one doing! Just let Him do! He Loves It. That's why we are here! He has always been such a giver, and by given to us He receives from us.
Many blessings on this glorious day,
Love, V
