Keeping it Real

Keeping it real can be hard for some folks, especially when they've lived within a particular illusion for so long. This is a defense mechanism for sure, otherwise why the need to go unconscious at such a severe degree. Some of them have lived a particular illusion for so long that they really don't know the difference any more.

People that are unconsciousness don't have the confidence or self-esteem to be in REALITY. They are usually easy to detect because they mimic what you say. Ask them a question and they will give back to you what you just said or someone else. There is no originality. Why? Because their whole life is now a lie based on someone elses truth. It's like the ego that tries to reconstruct something, it's going to be distorted. Have you ever had anyone ask you how you feel or thought about something only to hear it come out of their mouths as if it was their own? Well then, you have someone that has gone unconscious.

Now, don't get this confused with people who use information for the betterment of mankind, starting with themselves first. That is totally different. How? They embody the information, they are at one with it and can put it into their own words. The unconscious person cannot do this, they can only repeat word for word. And if you ask them how that knowledge applies to them in their life they usually can't tell you, unless they've already received that information from another person first.

You will see these people go unconscious when love and light is spoken about or when the conversation is changed from drama to love and respect. Why? Because they don't want to hear about love, that's being responsible. They also are feeding off of the drama, so if there is no drama they have to go on to the next person.

The other way that you can tell who these beings are is they usually live very secluded lives. They will come out every now and then to do their business but they appear to be depressed or sad, their shoulders stoop downward and they will not look you in the eyes. When they do look you in the eyes you can tell there is no one home or they look fearful.

So how do we know if we are keeping it real? Like I said, it's what we see, hear, taste and feel. So if someone starts talking about aliens and seems to be very drawn to that then they have a need for fantasy. They have a need to escape. They desire to have a close encounter so much that their whole life is now consumed with knowing where and what is going on from others. They read other peoples books and stories about what happened to them, only in hopes to have it happen themselves. This may seem twisted, but in reality this is a person screaming for help.

These people will also appear quiet and reserved only to pull people into their web of illusion. I'm sure we've all witnessed it. You have a kid in class that appears to be shy, reserved and can't talk. Then all of a sudden the teacher is paying attention only to this student in helping him/her to undestand rather than the whole class. Well that's because this student desires to be with others so badly they just do it in the other extreme. Instead of the class clown they are the class dunce, or the class reserved, or the class sick student, or the class accident prone student, the list goes on and on. They've usually done it for so long that the cycle is now reflective in everything that they do. They grow up to be adults that live this type of lifestyle out. They are the staff member that calls in sick, can't do this or that, loses things, can't stay focused, needs more attention or time while acting innocent the whole time.

Can we help people like this? Well, first one must be strong enough to know what is real themselves, and then two no one saves another. It's all accountability and responsibility of the individual. If they continue to manipulate their healing then let them do what they wish with it, it's their illusion and we know everyone is safe anyway. So if they desire to have a close encounter of a third kind then let them be because their world cannot affect yours unless you allow their own fears to be projected on to you.

Did you hear what I just said? "Their fears projected onto you". This is important!!!! And that's how our strength in what is real keeps us strong. A person coming from love knows they don't have to project because they are the embodiment of it and they see everyone as love and equal in this love. A person coming from fear will divide the mind. They are ready to show someone something. They are ready to prove to people that the world is coming to an end and that there is a hostile take over occuring. Well, this is true.....FOR THEM. They will only be proving this to themselves. For all that is within them is the only real battle that exsist.

Another way to identify reality is how forceful or manipulative a person is in wanting to be right. You got it, they want to be right, they desire to be so they don't care who they destroy. They will sit there with a smile on their face and gleam with light because now their ego has just been stroked. They might not be right at all but they think they are. And that's okay. Let them be, right! Loving them keeps you out of their battle of wills. When you allow them to be right it also ends the battle for them, so there is no more taking of your energy from you or you surrendering it to them.

There are so many more signs of an individual caught up within an illusion, but aren't we all to some degree? But how do we keep it real? Again, stay focused with what is, what are you observing.

I can tell everyone that I got caught up in a big illusion, living off of what other people were telling me that was true and it almost destroyed my business. Why? Because now I was not only losing business from these types of people being in my clinic but I was also not being real. When we are not real we can't be compassionate, we can't truly love or be love. Why? Because our reality is nothing but love. That's all that we are because we are in the heart of God. The mask that people wear to say that they are doing certain actions out of love; like making agenda busters to only fuel fear. But God's love alone is strongest and all agenda busters will be and have been eliminated. There is only one Agenda and that's God's Will.

When our minds and hearts blend with this love we are now living in the present and aligned completely to God's Will, what we speak will be. We become the true prophet for we are ONE with LOVE.

I share this with you guys today because the 7-Step process is fail proof. What this means is that it can't be used to harm another. When a person is struggling with the process it's only their ego not wanting them to discover the real story. Why? They would be love! What harm comes from knowing something about yourself and your illusion? Death, death of only the ego. And people love their egos. So when you have a person that is struggling with the process or feels they have moved beyond it, well....the moving beyond it might be true because their ego is so inflated. But no matter where you are on your path this process is quick and easy in bringing clear communication to what is real.

Current situation: Remember keep this real in what you see, hear, taste or feel (actual touch).
Feeling: Remember this is a feeling and keep in non judgemental, meaning do you feel sad, love, happy, joy, peace, frustration, pain, hurt, etc.
Thought: Now is the time that you can write down what you are thinking just to get it off your chest.
Gain: What is it that you are gaining by the situation?
Loss: What is it that you are losing from holding on to this situation or through this situation?
Belief statement: Now I'm going to show you how this becomes a belief statement. By the way we do a free teleconference call each month and we help others with the processes, so please join in.

I'm going to make something up so that people can see the extreme of what I was talking about above.

Current situation: I heard a friend say that aliens were taking over the world.
Feeling: Sad
Thought: I wonder what happened him/her to feel so disconnected.
Gain: Frustration
Loss: This friend
Belief Statement: I heard a friend say that aliens were taking over the world and this makes me feel sad because I wonder what happened to him/her to feel so disconnected. I'm gaining frustration while losing a friend.

So we can see through my gain and lose that I need companionship. And if we look at my thought of why this person is disconnected only tells us more about this companionship.

So I've kept it real but now I'm going to take responsibility for this. I'm going to see what is in it for me. I'll explain more on that later because there does come a time that we no longer have this being reflected in our lives. It could be this person desires to project so badly that they continue to test us. There comes a time we no longer need that test.

TRFI: I said aliens were taking over the world, I felt sad because I wondered how I became so disconnected and this was frustrating and I lost companions.

Wow, we can see that as long as I believe in aliens that I have no companions, why? Because they are not real. Aliens aren't taking over the world. We have no proof of that. Just because you want to project a president into being an alien doesn't making it so. (NOW, this is not what I think, just so you know. LOL)

Spirit/Relief Statement: I am the world and feel happy knowing I am connected with peace and companions.

This is what is real. We are the world, we are on this planet and when we feel happy we are at peace, we delight in companionships. It is only out of our fears, lack of happiness and lack of peace that brings us to any battle. Why? If you were peaceful inside would you go to battle? We only go to battle because we either feel our peace being taken from us or that we are not peaceful and have to stir crap up.

Now, when we walk through a process do it exactly like that. What will I do with this information since I took responsibility for it. Well, I can see that this individual is helping me to sustain my level of peace and joy. I see this person is making me stronger in my love and companionships. Now that I have that the person may move on in my life, or they may play a different role. But what's real is staying within peace.

May you enjoy!
Love, Velvete