Day 151 of 400 "Willingness"

Today's subject is "Willingness". This is more than just about agreeing or disagreeing to "do" something. It's more about "who" we become. We need to remember that the first parts of this process are Awareness (opening our eyes to what is really happening around us that is being reflected into the world), then we had alignment (are we going to buy into the illusions around us or are we going to align to the true us). Willingness can be difficult for a lot of people and we lose them right here. Why? Because when people become aware of their own power and realize they are creating what they are experiencing they want to continue to align to what they know and are unwilling to change.

There is nothing wrong or right about this decision because it's still a lesson for the individual. I know we have all had our moments when we ask, "Are you serious right now? You believe what?" But this would be judgement and not necessary for enlightenment. However discernment is very much a part of enlightenment. Thus, we can begin to see how willingness is a two way street, for a person must also be willing to be aware of the individuals reality and step aside.

Willingness will come to us in many different forms and fashions. It may be a willingness to tune into Spirit to allow your mind and body to re-align itself to Source (which by the way many people are very afraid to do), or it may just be the simple fact of allowing yourself to enjoy something new in your life to practice willingness and release. Willingness may simply just be "being". Not taking any action at all. This would be the greatest lesson and reward all together. With this said, when we are in tune with Spirit we know what to do, and trust that we are protected by Spirit. We appreciate everyone in our lives that help us to be where we need to be. If you are finding tension in your own body because you feel that you need someone to help you get there then this is not flow.

As I am writing this my daughter is helping someone that was controlling his wife and kids because he could see they were improving in their lives. They were happier, they were more joyful and they were more abundant and this was scaring him. He wanted to be a part of it but didn't know how. He told his wife that he was scared for her, he was worried about her, she was doing too much, and that he felt like he was going to lose her. There was a part of him that wanted to be apart of this joy and abundance but then when he was welcomed in he wanted to manipulate and change them back to his beliefs, ideas, and ways. He was only willing to align to his old ways and means of doing the same ole thing that wasn't working for him to begin with.

When you tell a person like this "no more" they attack and attack he did. It becomes apparent who or what a person is aligned to when put to the test. It is for all persons within this experience to process the information and look into the emotional tone of the situation. This husband felt anger which means he was fearful of something. His fear?????? Being left behind. People, I have been saying this for weeks now.....people are starting to feel the shift whether they believe in it or not and they don't want to be left behind. And they are willingly aligning themselves to another person rather than the person within. We all have the same abilities, same gifts and same opportunities.....it's our willingness to open to our own true potentiality that gets us through it. We are all of the light! We are not to sunbath in anothers light by unconsciously feeling safe and secure in anothers abilities, but rather bath ourselves in our own light and join with the light of others.

So here is where the thought part of the process comes in: It's your own willingness to think about your current situation to help yourself become more aware. How many times have your heard people say, "I just don't want to think about it any more". We don't want people to get caught in any traps; so by allowing the individual to go through it with a process helps to clear it from the mind, bring light to it, and allows the person more higher mind/above the line attitudes and energy.

So our willingness helps us to become more energized instead of robbing us of our power. It allows the individual to process the junk in life and move on. There is only today! Make the best of it with your willingness to enjoy life.

How do we help people that are unwilling to see that their negative thoughts bring more strife and chaos into their lives? Well, first we must make sure we have taken care of this for ourselves. To do so allows the energy to effortless flow from you to all persons, people, places and things that you come in contact with.

We do absolutely nothing until they ask us for our help. The only thing that we continue to do is hold the light in place until they are "willing" to accept it for themselves. Once they've made this decision to do so....they know they are not going to change us but that it will be them that will change. And it's really not a change but an attitude adjustment about life, themselves, and their world around them.

I tell people that if you are just willing to accept a little love each and everyday this love will grow within you naturally. If we shine our light all at once we can blind someone. This serves no one. So be willing to be a good steward of your light and allow it to shine when appropriate and don't let ego get hold of it.

Belief Statement: Whenever I sing or perform on stage or in front of people that I don't know I get really, really scared. I don't understand how I can be such a confident person and yet when on stage I freeze up. I gain anxiety and fear while losing my voice, strength, and joy.

Spirit Statement: I sing openly and knowingly of love. I am confident in life and flow with peace and love in my voice and with strength in joy.

I have done this process because even though I have a willingness to overcome my stage fright I needed to see what was blocking my flow from this. My thought is I don't understand how I can be such a confident person and yet when on stage I freeze up. By processing this thought I realized that life is the stage and that each and everyday I am given opportunities to embrace and enjoy it. That it's through confidence in love that I embrace it even more. I get stage fright because I allow myself or I willingly surrender this openly.

I will have to keep you posted on the next performance to see how it goes. I'm sure there is more for me to process but for now this is good.

So I hope you enjoy today's message about willingness and I look forward to starting Release tomorrow. If you or someone you know is having trouble with willingness please email me.

Love and light,
V