After taking a moment and realizing how busy my mother really is in her life, for a good purpose of helping others, I realized that I needed to honor her time, choice, and space. When I called her later that night we had a wonderful conversation and one that was enlightening for both of us. I have turned out just like my mother in so many ways. Her service to people has always been a priority in her life so she has taught me that for sure.
But now let's get back to connections. I had spoken to two friends about this situation. One was very patient listening to my concerns and allowed the information to unfold within my own mind by giving me gentle guidance and assurance as I went along this path of discovery. Through this willingness to just listen and to hold compassion for what I was going through allowed this natural rhythm and flow just to occur all on its own. And I found peace and comfort in her words back to me. I could never show my gratitude enough for what this person has been to me in my life. Of course we aren't able to stay in contact each and everyday, but we are connected in a much deeper way.
The next day I had another opportunity to share concerns with a friend only to be told, "Well that's how they created it why are you so worried about it? What difference does it make to you? Why are you spending so much time on this? You are making a mountain out of a mole hill." And as I have taught other to do, I listened to how my body was reacting to this information on an emotional level. Thank goodness it was not affecting me negatively but it did allow me to think. I realized that "connections" were the important part to all communications.
Here's why! If we are connected to our inner, loving self we are connected to everything and everyone around us and this "Always" allows us to realize that people are creating their reality. However, the timing has to be appropriate when sharing this information. And no matter how much we know someone is creating something doesn't mean that we are void of any lessons that might be coming from their creation. That is why we are co-creating our reality!!!!! We work "with" others, we "assist" others, we "lift up" others. When we break this compassionate side of us just to blurt out, "Hey, it's how they have it set up leave them alone and let them live their life", then we have just lost the most precious thing in our lives, ourselves. This doesn't mean that we have to start taking responsibility for what others are doing in their own lives and try to change what we see wrong, but rather to love them and support them with kind and loving words like my friend did in the first example. And to help people to "see" for themselves.
I have learned that those that come seeking for their own illumination love their own pity parties, but when someone else is seeking it for themselves this love is lost. This frequently happens when people go to psychics. I'm not saying this is wrong or right, I like to have fun doing that every now and then myself, just for the pure fun of it all. However, some people get so caught up in what others see for them they forget to look within themselves to see it. And the only person that is going to be clear about this vision is the person seeking it.
We all have to go within to find our connection and then bring forth its fruits of love and light. We all have to attend this journey called life to obtain our awakening. It's not going to happen any place else. Earth is our school and playground. We have to stay connected to the self here which will bring in more love and more joy here.
I think the greatest lesson I learned this weekend is this, that most people love the idea of the Higher Mind Vibrational Level, but when it comes down to it their own vibration continues to keep them in the lower mind and attracting lower mind events within their lives. That these people want to say they know something without applying within their own lives. They speak what they think rather than connecting and receiving guidance in what should be said or not said. All of which has taught me a valuable lesson.
No one can make another individual understand truth for it is for the person to understand and discover this for themselves. That people can take your words and twist and distort them, just as they have done through time over and over again because they do not have the words themselves. That people of this lower vibration look for every opportunity to make others feel less competitent and knowing then them. I'm sure we've all met this kind of person, they take out their Bible and they know it word for word but you never see a reflection of it in their own lives.
Those of us that are a part of the Higher Mind Vibration support one another as we go through our trials and tribulations. We support each other on a regular basis with the process to allow the individual self discovery.
The 7-Step Process allows you this self discovery of self limiting beliefs and lower mind attributes. It's through this awareness that allows you to see how you would rather be living your life and then going for that rather than going for what you don't want in your life any more. We support each other by living the process!!!
So I hope you have enjoyed "Connections" and apply this message within your own life. For it is through our relationships that make us stronger, but the main relationship is with our self.
Belief Statement: There are times I get confused with all of the information coming so quickly and need help processing it and this makes me unfocused. It upsets me when someone wants to discount my feelings just because they feel I should be so enlightened that they don't see I am human. I gain saddness and disconnection from parts of myself while losing joy.
Spirit: I am aware and processing information now with focus. I am happy to honor my feelings as an enlightened human that I am with happiness and connection to all parts of myself with joy.
We are all going to awaken, we are enlightened. Each and everyday is an awakening. Take each step with joy, love and peace.
My heart goes to all the parts of myself with love.