The Illusion of Pain

If you believe that pain is an illusion then tell that to the people that are actually in the heat of their pain and see what reception you get. Tell a person that is in need, down, depressed or simply alone that they are creating their reality and see what response you get.

Compassion doesn't mean that you tell people what you know, but rather knowing when to keep your mouth shut in the midst of the drama. AND!!!! If you really understood how things were created you would dare not open your mouth and accuse your brother or sister in creating anything, for my dear friend, you are in the same boat. ONLY when you know how YOU created it can you assist yourself in uncreating it. That's right, YOURSELF!

Many people that get their hands on HMLM begin with the baby steps in understanding how they are creating their reality, but before they can go deeper into the illusion they throw it out there in order to validate they are okay.

I shared a story with a friend a couple of weeks ago about a client that I really had a soft spot for. I wasn't worried about how the client was creating the situation but rather why I was being exposed to it. As my heart softened and I spoke to this friend about it suddenly the response of "Well you just need to stop talking to them and let them figure out why they keep creating that situation." HOW LOVING IS THAT?

This is the same person that takes upon themselves to speak to people about things they know nothing about, trying to change the client, rather than listening to what the client is showing THEM. Remember if someone has not come to you for coaching, understanding, or teaching then they are there to coach, teach and aid in the understanding about yourself.

I did an experiment one day that let me know the power of healing and it frightened me. I was able to process what was going on with the client and the client improved. It was through this experiment I learned we are all one for sure. No matter how much you "think" you dislike someone, they ARE you! It wasn't until I was able to completely process this situation that I was able to totally release this individual and was able to free myself from the illusion.

Pain is real! It is real to help us to see where we are out of balance. And just because you are not experiencing any physical pain does not mean that you are not experience pain in another area of your life. When the ego takes over and you ask a client so how are you feeling the ego will do everything in its power to hide pain. You will say everything is good even when you are without a job, without a relationship, or more. I see it every day where folks will pretend everything is good with them in order to avoid looking at the real pain. I said "real pain". This pain is the pain of separation. Go ahead and take the medicine that you need but always remember to process it.

We can only begin to understand where we are separated from Source when we are willing to see where we are experiencing pain. If you are in a job that you hate, or even dislike then you must begin to look around and see what's going on. God is always there to give us clues. If you are taking abuse then you understand that you do not honor yourself. If you take uninvited direction from others then you know that you have lost your way. If you know that your little ego has its grip on you but you can't stand the idea of giving up that kind of power, well......enjoy.

Enjoying learning about your pain today.