The Drama

If you've ever been in a play you know whether you're a person that loves to be out in front of the crowd or behind the scenes. There are those of us that like to be out in front but will not admit it and will work along side someone that is the star of the play so that all eyes are on them all along knowing that people are looking at us to, and that if something goes wrong it's the stars fault. Or we can make it like it was someone else behind the scenes, so truly we look innocent even though we are not.

This plays out in our everyday lives as well but it gets harder to recognize. The people around us see us because we want them to see us. We want them to see how important we are as we assist the star to become even more famous. The hidden agenda expands to destruction!

We see it in our world everyday, a star is basically quiet and nothing is going on but then someone stirs crap up. Well who's doing that? No one really cares about what is going on in another persons life except the person that benefits from stirring the pot to begin with. You see most stars love just being by themselves and being behind the scenes for a while. But the person that is living off the drama of this star has to stir it up. They have to keep something going, they have to create a problem, they have to keep everyone else away from the star in order to have the star completely convinced that this is really happening so now the star can step into his role, the role that is being created from the person generating the drama.

Now I know that I am using this as an example using stars, but this happens within our everyday lives as well. This example is being given so that you can have compassion for the person creating the drama because they feel such lack of respect and honor for themselves they are living their life through another.

When we respect ourselves we don't have to worry about shining, we're not worried about being called out on the carpet, and we sure as heck don't worry about what others think of us by pretending to be something more than we are. We are quite comfortable showing up and "being" our best. There is never a thought of whether we aren't the best and that we have to prove that we are, we are just content and excited about being alive and having a role to play. That, my friends is how stardom begins. Each star was willing to play whatever part they could get without over shadowing or out shining another star.

We all have to work with people but if someone is running you over trying to get to the main star before you can, let them. They need it more than you because they need the encouragement, they need the reinforcement, they need the extra feeling of feeling extra special. People who know that they are secure, confident, and special don't need this extra validation. They don't need the contact with the star because they are more than happy to support the actor in whatever capacity is necessary for the success of the overall play.

So you see, we are doubly blessed when we are confident in who we are because now not only are we allowing the star to shine, but we are giving hope to the person who is and has to feed off of power, excitement, recognition, and the feeling of being important. We all need to feel important, we all need to feel that we've done something good in our lives, we all need to know that we have helped humanity somewhere in our lives. When this gets out of balance with need for more power we begin to manipulate and destroy what good relationships we might have. We will literally throw others under the bus, including the star in order to get what WE want.

Have you ever been to a play where a stage hand forgot to pull a chair off the stage and during the play went in and pulled it off rather than just letting it sit there? Well this is a person that had a hidden agenda, he didn't like the fact that people didn't know who he was and went out to get the chair and disrupted the play rather than just allowing it to sit their unknowingly. No one ever knows whether the chair really belong there or not until someone comes out to pull it off.

Do you get the point? As the quickening occurs there will be more and more folks that will cling to this reality by making it feel more special than it really is. This may take on the illusion of a career, health, family, friends and/or money. No matter how special you feel in any of these areas you cannot hide nor deny that you are creating it in order to hold an illusion in place. The more excited you are about it the more you are wanting the lie to be real rather than what is real to be real. Let it go!

This world is the place where we are learning to ground the spiritual world with our physical world. This is how we end death! Slow down and breathe! Ground who you are with the physical world around you and the adjustments you've come to make in your life will happen with great speed.

Enjoy this beautiful three day weekend,
Dr. Velvete