Looking within Opposition

There is a BIG need to address this very issue today. I know you guys have read it over and over and over again how people feel that I've been born with a silver spoon in my mouth and that everything just comes to me easily and effortless.

Of course everything comes to us ALL easily and effortless but there is one main thing that I do different that a lot of folks don't. I take responsibility for what I am seeing as being a means to get where I am going.

There are times when we begin to attract good into our lives and it almost seems like there is bad following close behind. But we know this isn't true, we know that all there is is love. But we validate that there is evil, keeping it alive, just because now we are unable to face the shadow. It is within your shadow that you have the biggest golden nugget of all times.

These shadows appear as an opposite to what it is we are now trying to attract into our lives. I had a dear, dear friend with me over the weekend and we talked about this very thing. We talked about how every time we were attracting something in our lives that it always seemed there was an opposite that showed up. It was through our deeper level of awareness and understanding about the level of responsibility that we take that we learned that those were not oppositions to harm or prevent us from moving forward, but rather allowing us time to reflect and take a lesson in how WE STOP OURSELVES. You see?

Say for instance you want to be a millionaire, as you are attracting that idea into your field now you are attracting the opposite in order for you to see the shadows of the lessons necessary in order to be the best millionaire you can be.

Say for instance you desire a relationship, but it seems like it's always opposite of what you were looking for. Those relationships are to help you see something about yourself you don't like in order to work on that issue and then free yourself up to have what you do want in your life.

Everyone talks about the Law of Attraction and forgets to tell you that the equal of that is the Law of Opposites and this my friends is the reason that so many people give up on their dreams. They are thinking that the universe is telling them no, get away from that you don't need it, rather than taking the time to process why THEY are holding themselves back, why are they preventing what they want in their lives, why are they not as good as everyone else is having their dreams come true.

You see the Universe is more than willing and happy to be of service, but all we've done is call the waiter to the table and not really know what it is we really wanted but knew only what we didn't want. Then the waiter is confused and brings us the opposite of what we are asking for because that my friends is what life is all about.

So stop looking at my life as if I've got some special talent, gift or awakening and take responsibility for your own life. If you see me as an opposition in your life look at what that is and realize it's how you are stopping yourself. If you see me powerful and a know it all, then that my friend is where you need to begin. It is only your own power that you are running from, you own willingness to know that keeps you in your pain and suffering.

We are never jealous of what a person has, is or does...... we are only jealous of their happiness. Many of you have told me just how jealous you are of me, you've stopped being friends with me because of this envy, greed and jealousy. It's all because you see me happy, nothing else. I have nothing more than anyone else. All the money in the world never makes us happy. But many of you wanted that magic bullet in becoming rich over night by doing a process but quickly learned the Law of Opposites.

I have been able to take my shadows of living in a car, living in the extreme heat in Alabama while 7 months pregnant, and living without food while in college with two children to take care of and turned it to see what was I running from. It is in moments like that that I became stronger. I didn't allow my shadow to take me off course, but rather I use it to bring me closer to where I wanted to be, enlightened.

Enjoy your day and know that what I have everyone has, what I'm able to do you are able to do as well. There is no special knowledge, magic or trick to it. It is simply taking 100% responsibility for everything that we see, hear and feel. If you can't feel don't worry about it, it will come in time. But what you should be asking yourself is, "What am I not willing to feel"? You see that is your shadow and you know it. You are not able to feel because you know to start feeling FREES you!

Whatever it is that you are blocking is where you are hiding your power, set it free!