Expecting!

I have often wondered why when people ask for your advice and then they turn the other way like a blind man what is really going on. Why had they asked for something and then go do some the opposite? I have come to realize that most people want you to give them the same answers or solutions that they are currently using in order to validate and say, "I've been doing that, it doesn't work." Or, they just want you to do it for them.

But then I thought about it further, especially over the weekend. After being in this law office I am witnessing how so many people don't take the advice of someone that KNOWS what they are doing, let alone do what they know to be right even in themselves.

I realize that all of these images are but mere distortions of the reflections coming up from the spirit, but I still couldn't help to look even beyond that and deeper. What I found was amazing, another golden nugget.

You see people love their pain and suffering. One of the reason Jesus wouldn't take it away from them when Satan tempted him. He knew and understood what people wanted. Now of course that doesn't mean you stop shining your light because one day they do get sick and tired of pain and suffering.

But what I saw deeper and at the root of their pain and suffering in asking for advice but not listening, heeding to it or even twisting it beyond recognition was their expectation level.

What we expect we get! So if we expect something is not going to change then it's not. If we expect that no matter what we do that we will experience the same thing over and over again then that's what we will get. You see it has nothing to do with really asking anyone for advice, you really don't know what to expect and so you avoid that advice like a virus because you are fearful that NOW you'll have to take responsibility for what you see in your world.

If you expect that your husband is an A** H^#$@ then guess what, that's what you are going to get. The Secret teaches people to just think positive thoughts about that person but it's never about the person it's about you. If you are expecting the person to do something that you are not sure of yourself now you can blame the other person for failing when all along you expected to fail yourself and that's why you never tried it. If you expect people are hiding something from you then you yourself have issues about people being in your business, so you expected it.

Just like with any person getting ready to give birth you have certain expectations and you have a due date. There is a lot of energy that goes into this process and all thoughts should be highly guarded because the unborn child is always affected by this energy. What you expect of another could possibly go directly into that unborn child. Talk about a process, gezzz.

Many of you might be reading this and thinking that all you have to do is turn on some expectation switch, well that's a good start. But it will be what you expect out of yourself. I can hear it in my head now, "Velvete, I expect good things for myself. I know that I'm worthy, but it's the memories of something else that's keeping me from being who I am. Someone else is attacking my energy. Someone else is doing this to me."

Well that's what you expect and that's what's going to continue to happen. If you are expecting others to be mean to you, rotten to the core and always using you then you will block yourself from the true you in order to give birth to what you are currently expecting.

If you expect that when you go to work everyday you're going to be sitting in traffic then that's what's going to happen. If you are expecting to pay someone back money, now you'll have to continue to give birth to that idea each and everyday. It may be a struggle for you to even take care of your own needs but you are now expected to pay someone back.

Enough is said on this subject right now for this subject will be one that many will try to manipulate and use to their own advantage in just obtaining more stuff, more status, or more illusion. However, all that will happen is more frustration because the principle of enough is directly linked to the principle of expectation.

Enjoy your day and expect change because really that's all you can expect because we are constantly changing and growing. It's kind of easier just to go with the flow, or the cycles of life, rather than trying to swim upstream and expect different results. Wake up people, like is easy!