When Friends Don't Change!

Friends that don't change isn't about making friends change, but rather the realization of why the same type of friend shows up over and over and over again appearing in a different body.

Have you ever had a friend that suddenly became your only friend? What happened to everyone else? Have you ever had a friend that "hated" certain people in your life that they had no problems letting you know with passion? What kind of person were they once you got rid of the person they didn't like? Have you ever noticed how the friend that complains about a friend sitting next to you does everything in their power to sit on the opposite side?

What's up with all that?????

Ego knows that you are getting close, it wants to give you drama in order to keep you from seeing yourself in one person because if someone else is seeing it then it can't be all about you, right? WRONG!!!!

If the ego can get you to validate what you are seeing in another is real then you don't have to address it because it's not your problem.

You will also find that the friend that worked his/her way into your life to push people away from you now will feel empowered and will rob you of what you know, use what you know against you, and will think they have an all powerful foot into the gateway of heaven. They will come to you for advice and then make it appear as if they have experienced this advice and share it with others that are not ready for it because they themselves were not ready for it. You can never share with another what is not truth for you because now ego will use it against you. They may actually set up a situation that leaves you completely feeling dis empowered because now you rely on them more than you rely on yourself.

Of course when you wake up from this dream and walk away from that situation the ego will become so furious it will look for any way it can to destroy you. But as it is working on destroying you it is simply destroying itself. Whatever it says about you will be made known to the heavens and the truth will be realized. As it punishes you for walking away and robbing it of power it will do what it can to get that power back but this time in a very distorted and tangled way. It's arrogance will grow and being sweet and kind will take a back seat because the ego working through another will make this person feel empowered and "right" for acting this way. The sweetness they do display is not real and will be felt and known to others quickly.

Folks, there is never a reason to be ugly to another person. You can stand your ground and maintain your place of power without destroying another person. We don't have to belittle people in order to make ourselves feel more important.

I have had the wonderful opportunity to experience this battle between egos. And I'm glad I did. It made me realize that when I have one friend that wants my undivided attention and disapproves of everyone in my life is the fullness of my ego. It is this person that I am learning more about where the ego is hiding my power.

It is through this experience that I have been able to renew my energy and to know who "I AM". I have shared with friends before that if you will take 100% responsibility for what you do not like, what you are seeing, what you are feeling,and what you are thinking of another then you will release hidden power and love that will allow you to become free, clear, and full of life.

When we are able to think of a person and the person calls us immediately upon having the thought lets us know that we have stepped back into our own being rather than being what ego desires of us.

It's not up to me to change a friend to be what I think they should be, it's not up to me to tell friends who they should be friends with or not friends with, and it's not up to me to know what is best for another......it's only up to me to know and recognize what is happening within my vision. It is through my own awareness that allows me to reconnect to the "I AM" part of my being.

Enjoy being empowered today by recognizing where you are hiding power. What you see in another is truly what is hidden within you. If you see a person powerful and confident then you showing yourself you are these things, but if you are not happy with such a person then.....well you need to look at this.