How many times have you screamed at a person that you felt just sabotaged your aspirations? We've all done it. We've done it so much that there are all kinds of warnings not to speak about your dreams, aspirations or ideas until they are on solid ground. But let's take a deeper look behind the scenes.
As I stood in the midst of drama the other day I realized there are two sides to this coin. First, yelling at a person that our dreams didn't come true because of something that they thought, said, or did is giving this person way too much credit. That said, it's also not the only thing that you are doing, you are rejecting God's will.
Isn't it funny how when we win or when things go our way we say it was God's will so effortlessly and easily? How is it that when things go our way God is on our side but when things don't go our way something else is at work? How can there be both? The opposite of appreciating everything in your life as the Will of God gives power to the lower mind in believing that someone else DID SOMETHING TO YOU, which we know is not true.
I had a discussion with a young lady one day and she said that we win wars and have the responsibility in fighting these wars because we are supported by God. Isn't that interesting that God would support war, but what about the people that are suffering in that war? For those that act arrogant and self righteous where does God fit in?
Whenever there are moments that I want to blame my husband for the "bad" things in my life I stop and look at him as the reflection of God. I realize very quickly that these bad things really are the good things that are happening. God is protecting, prodding, or motivating me to do something different.
That said, when I blame others for the wrong in my life then I am denying God's Will. When I love what is happening in my life and feel that God loves me by giving me what I want then I'm delusional. And when I realize that it's all God's will no matter what is taking place I have profound peace that God is love and has my best interest while aiding me on my path to enlightenment.
Can we give our power away? Absolutely, we do that by denying God's will and buying into the illusion that we could ever be separate from His Divine Will or Love. This dis empowers us in being ONE with God's will. It's not until we find ourselves one with God's will that then we are truly able to create as we speak.
Now the other side to this coin. What about the person that is blaming you for the what is wrong in his/her life? Our first instinct is to prove to this person this statement is false and that we deserve more respect. Love this person because again this is God showing you how you have separated yourself from His love, you might not know how you did it but it could have been as easy as gossiping about another person, it might have been you just listening to this person gossiping about another, all of these are examples of separation. So thank the person for the opportunity to learn and grow and KNOW this was God's will in order to show YOU how you fell out of alignment.
What a blessing! I mean look at how much we can learn by just taking those moments that we feel that it's someone else' fault. I know I'm a better person for it. I'm so thankful that God loves me so much that sometimes it hurts.
Take a moment and review your life and write down a person that you feel is to blame for your lot in life. Once you have that written down thank God for the message and look deeper into the situation. Of course you can always go to our website, link above, to download the process. If you ever need assistance please be sure to call or write.
Love, Dr. Velvete
Awareness opens the possibility for Alignment and the Willingness to Release. Free yourself of illusions within YOUR reality. What are you creating that makes you feel disempowered?
