The End of Healing

When does healing end? Well of course there's never really an end to it, but when can we see that healing has stopped? Is spiritual healing more difficult to see or witness? I don't think so, I think there are still signs of progress and completion.

As a student myself I have come to learn many spiritual lessons, some bigger than others. Thank goodness for the little breaks in between, otherwise I think I would have just given up. Which can and does happen, people give up. But this doesn't mean they aren't healing. Just like a cut on your finger there comes a day when just fresh air assist in the healing.

But as I've grown there are certain things I've been able to witness, manly because I've done them myself that lets me know that a person is no longer taking responsibility for their own healing. Trust me, I've done each and everyone of these things myself and know that I've done so in order to protect my little "i".

1. The person has stopped healing when a situation arises that has caused pain or resentment they quickly let you know that's your issue and that you need to take responsibility for your own projection. Even though there is some truth to this response the person who has healed is compassionate and understands the persons pain and realizes that the pain the individual is suffering from is still their pain as well. But the person that has stopped healing, either temporarily or permanently lacks compassion and pushes the person to see how they've done it to themselves rather than allowing the person to figure this out for themselves. I mean can you see it now, the blind man walks up to Jesus and says, "Please heal me so I can see" and Jesus turns around and says, "Well that's for you to understand and see. What are you getting from all of this" and then walks away? We immulate Jesus because he was compassionate, he understood their pain.

2. The person that has stopped healing now has companions. They go around doing what they can to get other people to side with them in order for them to feel validated or right in HOW they are feeling about the situation the person has brought to light. This allows the person to go deeper into their sleeping state with company. "I am right to feel the way I do about this and this has nothing to do with me because this person is this and this." LOL, isn't that funny, how the person is quick to tell you that it's your situation because it's what you are "SEEING", but has failed to see that as they build their companion list of what this person has done to them, is exactly what they need healing within them themselves.

3. The person that has stopped healing now avoids you and promotes everyone to do the same. I know when I have stopped healing, I would cut you off. I didn't want to hear what you had to say. There is a big difference in cutting someone off because you have missed placed anger and letting them go because they need to discover themselves.

4. The person that has stopped healing now seeks to manipulate others in being around them in order to continue to project and prove their rightness. This appears in many different forms but the one that is most common is someone staying in contact with someone that they "know" needs to be released but can't because they don't want to allow the other person to move on with their life.

5. The person that has stopped healing will read these words and see how I have done all of these things but will fail to see themselves within these words. They will continue to make it about someone else, they will continue to validate their separation through projection instead of healing the wounds through reflections of extentions.

6. The person that has stopped healing can't hear. They can't hear the cry of their own soul and so the cries of others are projected in order for the person not to focus on their own issues but the issues of others, even if these issues mean separation, spit, anger, resentment and more.

True healing for the planet comes when we stop saying it's your fault and take responsibility for what we are perceiving. When a person calls to tell you about their day they don't need you to process them, they need you to love them. When a person writes to share a story with you, they aren't asking you to tell them how they are doing this to themselves, they are in need of deep compassionate understanding and love. Even as a coach I listen to the client and only when the client is ready to take it on by saying, "I need your help to understand this" am I given the right to assist. If you are a client this agreement is made in advance, if you are a friend I am a friend until you ask for my direct assistance, if you are family I am your family until you are ready to heal. And even then you might find out this is too much for you and will want to walk away, then walk away. No one is here to force another to heal, it is our responsibility to heal from within.

Take all the time you want to heal, but at least keep your channel to do so open. When you find yourself tempted to cut yourself off from the world understand that you still have some healing to do. When you tell people that this person is not worth the time of day understand that the God in you is sleeping. When you tell people what another person has done or is doing to you, know that it is you doing it but you are giving it the disguise that it's someone else.

Have you stopped healing? Have you put your life on hold in order to condemn another? Have you suffered with your family and friends, or were you standing outside of the situation condemning them that it's their reality? Are you telling people, "Well you know you create your reality, your thoughts are powerful" only to have the life that you hate and resist every single day of your life? Then here is an example of a stopped healing process. You can't hear even when your soul speaks from your own mouth. Wake up! Or are you one of these people waiting to prove to everyone you were right by seeking success in the physical world while leaving a trail of destruction behind you? Go ahead, you'll see that love is still there, waiting!

Just so you know I love you and will continue to love you no matter how much hate, fear, greed or destruction you think you see. I will always want the best for you because you are the best. Always be your best.