The last couple of days have been about how miracles have happened in peoples lives, how by simply knowing what they truly desire in life that it will come to them. There are teachings out there that teach that desires are not good and that you'll resist them if you desire them, a part of that is very true.
The reason people will resist their desire is because it's not a true desire. A true desire isn't, "I want to lose weight", because your subconscious mind will see that as a protective program. What I mean by this is the subconscious mind is there to protect and keep life going, survival. So if you've been hurt as a child by a particular incident in your life, let's say a fat woman your subconscious mind uses that information now to protect you. It's interesting how deep those protections can go as well. These are memories.
So when we feel we are frustrated, angry, lack luster in our lives or are just isolated then we are living in the memories of the subconscious mind. Sometimes even in the conscious mind. These memories are in a nice little scrapbook you keep in your data file bank and they are protected by these little green men in black. LOL, not really....but it is an illustration in how well we like to protect what we "think" is real and how "real" we want that to be.
Okay, so what would be a desire that would not get cancelled by the brain or subconscious mind. As I stated yesterday, my father in law was teaching me to play golf. As he was teaching me to swing he said I was hitting the ball little a baseball. He showed me that all we do is put into our minds where we want the ball to be and it will get pretty close. I remember my husband and I were practicing in Heath one time and he told me this and I was floored. I completely relaxed and I looked at my target one time and allowed my body to just let go. LOL....I laughed so hard because it landed right in the target. My husband just looked at me. But my husband could do this all the time and I asked him, "Why didn't you play professional golf?" He just said he didn't think he was good enough.
And there you have the true desire, not to be good enough. That's what most of us desire in our lives is not to be good enough. And everyone is saying, oh that's not true I am, or I do want to be good enough. Well you are not seeing yourself as good enough in something otherwise you would just be doing it. There would be no block and you would be able to apply that somewhere else in your life even if it wasn't what you were good at.
Many people do this, they are really good at something but they don't feel worthy enough for doing it, or that they think it's too ease so they can't make a living at it because it would be like taking candy from a baby. And really! Who came up with that phrase? Have you ever tried taking candy from a baby? It's not that ease, why; because that baby knows what it wants.
So let's flip that around and say that it would be like taking candy from a baby and you're the baby, no one is going to tell you that you can't do that, that you do deserve that, and that you can have whatever you want in life.
But here's the problem of where greed comes in with the danger of desire, when you are now taking it or feeling that you need someone else to give it to you.
This kind of danger builds up in our minds and will literally shut us down, isolate us, make us feel confused and distracted. All desires take real action from the person desiring them. It would be like me playing golf and not hitting the ball and just expecting the ball to arrive where it should. Well one day we might be able to do that but not now and maybe never.
Now everyone wants to know how to be clear on what it is that you desire. Well first you can use any books or material that you currently use to see what blocks you have. And I'm going to share this with you right now, the ones that you know that you have are not the ones causing imbalance and stress in your life. The things that you don't know about yourself and the things that you've hidden deep within you are the ones that cause the things that you know. The things you know are easy to fix, the ones you don't, not so much. The things that you say, "Oh, I don't have that problem in my life at all" is the one thing that you should investigate and see how you might have projected this on to another.
Say for instance that a numerology book says that you have issues with power and that you tend to give it away and you can't stay in a relationship because of this. Okay, the person says, "Oh, I don't have that problem and I've been long lasting relationship and I don't have an issue with power." Okay but then you ask this person how many relationships they've had and are they with any of them and the answer is no, and then you ask them why did you leave them and it's because they beat the hell out of them, they have projected there power onto another.
You see folks, when we see evil in the world, or that we are seeing that we are being taken advantage of in anyway it is simply us not taking responsibility for what is inside of us. It's a way for us to validate that everyone else is mean and cruel and not us. It's a way for us to continue believing that we need protection from others and validate that we need to keep isolating ourselves out of protection. Such an ego game.
True healing comes from having the ability to look within and see what it is that you are projecting.
Okay, back to desire. The way to figure out what this is. Well, once you realize what it is that you are resisting then all else can fall into place. So for my husband he was resisting his good enough! Now because he was resisting his "good enough" he had to make his life as difficult as possible to survive and to always be surviving rather than living.
So we did our processes yesterday afternoon and discovered a lot about ourselves in how we both felt undeserving, we both have matching numbers in Dan Millman's book "The Life you Were Born to Live." So we decided to take those common numbers and come up with a common goal/desire. We realized that it had to do with power, profectionism, and abundance.
When we did our 7 Step Process and realized how we had done that to ourselves over and over and over again we both just cried and happy all at the same time. We both were able to release something of our childhood that we believed about ourselves. It wasn't real it's what we believed, it was an assumption, but when we took it and turned it over to God all things fell into place.
Now, getting back to action. Okay say for instance your desire is to be a writer. And in your mind you have your end result in mind. Well it's not going to come to you by just sitting on the sofa, it takes real energy to make real energy. So if you find yourself being able to see the end of being a writer but then you don't have any action in becoming or doing writing then you're not going to have your desire. Plain and simple!
Say your desire is to go back to school to learn something new but you don't pay attention to the signs, you don't register in time, you don't know what you want as the end result of that teaching.
Many people want to play at being a writer, a teacher, a student, a counselor, but very few know the real reason that they are driven to do these things. And everyone is stepping into the catch all phrase because they "think" this is their ticket out, "I want to help people". YOU CAN'T HELP ANYONE IF YOU HAVEN'T HELPED YOURSELF FIRST. So if your life is a mess all you are doing is projecting your mess onto others. We already have a world full of those kinds of people.
When we experience a real shift in our lives then and only then can we help others. It would be like me writing the 7 Steps and then not applying them in my life and then telling everyone, "Well it will work if you just give it a try." Are you kidding me, this is a life long process.
The 7 Step Process allows you to see what it is that you believe about yourself that is keeping your from your goals, desires, and realizations. It's a way for you to understand the within that is driving you. There are other processes out there that work too, but you have to find one that you're not going to run away from. One that's not going to be pushy and one that's going to last that you can do on your own.
Now, the end of the road map. Okay, so you want to be abundant and you haven't been able to. You do a process and understand the reason you have been keeping this from yourself, like undeserving and now your end means will be deserving what you desire.
It works and has worked for folks that I have worked with within minutes. Time only exist in the memory of it all. When we unblock that unit of memory we release the energy that it took now to hold that in place, when we do that we allow time to be the now.
Now is when we are taken action, now is when we are living, and the now is where we are free to be who we "want" to be. You will never get what you want if you think all that you have to do is sit in your apartment and just have it show up for you. You have to go out and allow the Universe to do it's part. The Universe is expansive, it can do whatever needs to be done....and it will never be like you think in your head. And even when you do get the answers and it's exactly as you asked for it, you'll find you'll still ignore it. That beautiful girl that you asked for just came up to you and gave you all the signals that she's the one, based on what you wanted, and you let her walk away. There my friends is the clear example of resisting a desire because the end means was distorted.
How was the end distorted? By specifies! Let the Universe take care of that and you'll see that you'll be more happy than you could ever imagine.
Please feel free to write or ask me questions. This is the year to start living your reality instead of your dream. Dreams come and go, reality is with us forever. Dreams we can be awaken from, reality we awaken to.
Much love, V
Belief Statement: The dog was in bed with me this morning waking me up and I felt happy. I wondered why she was in the bed and why she was waking me up. I gained joy while losing nothing.
Spirit Statement: God is with me this morning waking me to joy knowing that He and I are waking together with joy in everything.
Some of you will have your beliefs that God doesn't live in a dog but God can do and is doing whatever He wants to do. It's only your belief that you can control God that allows you to continue to kick the dog and project your rejection of God to that little beast.
