Go out and have fun today, be the child that you are and enjoy the ride!
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I decided to quote "Higher Mind, Lower Mind" today in order to clarify what to expect:
What to Expect
"Years of negative talk and beliefs can affect the mind, body, and spirit. Many of us experience this through imbalances in our mental, emotional, or spiritual health. If we continue to allow ourselves our negative thoughts and beliefs, sickness and continue imbalances will occur. We are not our negative beliefs, emotions, talk, thinking, reasoning, etc. When we allow ourselves to become distant from Source, we allow Ego to decide who we are, imbalanced and incomplete."
As I've stated before we must be willing to look at what we belief about ourselves and others in order to discover truth. If we have ever gained anything based on a thought or action of what we believed to be true we can now play this out in our lives over and over and over again.
Say for instance there is a student in your class room that seems very withdrawn. Never seems to participate with the other children and when she does it becomes all about her. If others don't want to play what she's playing she just gets up and moves away, leaving everyone just sitting there, now leaving the teacher trying to attempt bringing the child back into play or interaction. The teacher spends a great deal of time on this child now trying to "figure" out what's going on with this little girl to make her "feel" a part of the group.
Now, we don't know what might have happened with this particular child so we can't assume anything, but we can work with facts. What are they?
Child sits alone to play.
When interacting with others if others don't follow what she wants she walks away.
Teacher spends a lot of time with the student.
As a teacher I witnessed this so many times as I was monitoring a classroom. It would only take one student to pull the teachers attention away from the whole group.
Now we are not saying that the teacher should not show the child attention. But what happened when I asked my teachers to sit the child at a table by themselves with whatever they wanted to play with and continue to play and interact with the other children what happened next was simply amazing. The child now wanted to be a part of the group.
You see when we reward, or when others seek reward for withdrawing in society they will withdrawal more. The guy that is on top of a bridge screaming I'm going to take my life and he's stopped traffic for miles and miles, what he is saying is I am wanting attention. All eyes on me right now because I want you to stop what you are doing and pay attention to me.
The only way to find out what the child believes about them self is simply to ask. Many of my students shared with me that dad doesn't live in the house, or that mom had to work and they had to stay at home by themselves. Some would even share stories of how other brothers and sisters were picking on them at home.
But what is the child projecting. If we don't believe that children can project think again. Their world is full of them when they step outside of themselves. The child that is in alignment with Source or their Higher Self is a child that plays and is comfortable moving from one thing to another with ease. I can't begin to tell you how many times I watched my grandchildren start with one thing and suddenly moved to a whole different theme in their playing. They literally were acting out life, flow.
If a child believes that the only way they are going to get attention is by withdrawing from folks in order to get one on one attention, then what happens is this becomes a habit. They now will create all kinds of situations in their life where people will now have to come to them to show them how much they love this child.
The child unknowing of the belief grows up but doesn't understand why people don't like hanging out with them, or why they seem to be so lonely in life, or why they can't seem to stay present. Well, they can't stay present because they only have their belief they have to "act" lonely in order to attract people into their lives.
Well folks, this isn't going to work in the new world. We are shedding our beliefs. We are literally seeing in real time now. Meaning that there are more and more of us being present, staying in the now and investigating our own beliefs.
In order for a person to hold on to that belief that I am lonely then there has to be someone else that has to believe that I need to assist this person. We are all starting to wake up and realize that we are responsible for our own stuff, and that it is through dealing with what we feel that allows us healing and truth.
So what is going on in your life right now didn't just happen overnight. It probably took you several years to get where you are right now.
The suffering only occurs because now they believe that this is who they truly are. A person that isolates themselves doesn't like what they are seeing or who's playing with them. But it is through playing with others that we learn the most about ourselves.
Go out today and play. Have fun! Make it fun!
Love, Velvete
