Yesterday we reviewed "feelings" thus allowing us to really dive into our emotional drive for our attachments. It's interesting to me how people will say to me, "Oh, I don't have any feelings about that. I'm fine. I've forgiven that. I know I'm better off without them." However, by their actions alone you can tell this is not true. Like I've said before, no one is going to be able to fake their way through this ascension process.
Faking our way through it only drives that feeling and attachment even further deep within us. So when you've spoken to someone and they say to you, "Oh, you've not affected me. I'm totally good with everything." But then isn't able to make contact with you, or respond when contact has been made, then the individual is attached to how they are feeling about the situation and faking their way through it. I learned the value of releasing such attachments about 11 years ago. I headed to NC and while there I saw all my x's. I was able to face my fears and show them love and light even after all that happened. I was able to do this because even then I knew to give them power over my life by having an attachment of hurt, pain, lack, or anything else only robbed me of life force energy.
Anytime we hold a negative feeling for another this is robbing us of our own loving energy.
It wasn't too long ago that I revisited a situation of a young woman that used to work for me that I thought did me so much harm and wrong. I had surrender so much of my own power to her that even the thought of her made my heart race and blood pressure rise. I was only empowering her. When I realized through the 7-Steps what I was doing I was able to process it. Now I am able to talk about her in a loving way because I am able to see all that she taught me. I can see the benefit she taught me.
Lessons that we refuse to see coming from another when there is that much negativity and anger towards a person can be hard, but the reward is 100 times better. These people have the most to teach you about yourself. These people have the most to share with you of the things you are hiding from yourself.
In our process we use gain because they become excuses for our attachments. Such as I need this type of car because if I don't drive this kind of car people won't respect me. I need this size of a house because I'm suppose to be the pillar of the community and who's going to look up to me if I live in a one bedroom home. These are all gains for our attachments.
The very first step in the process is what is the current situation, this is the attachment. So if someone says, "She just left me out there without any reasons for letting me go", they are now attached to the person they "think" let them go. This person will continue to attach them self to the person through thoughts, feelings and more. We ask what are you gaining from this situation to allow you to see how ego is driving you further into the illusion. The individual may say, "I'm gaining anger, fear and frustration", which ego loves....these are all lower mind attributes.
When we look at our gains we also have to look where this is within the minds. It's okay to feel frustrated, it's not okay to become attached to it. And trust me, when you are not able to resolve an issue with one person there will be another just behind them to teach it all over again to you.
So where is your life? Is it in the Higher Mind or Lower Mind? Do you operate your day with anger, resentment, fear, jealousy or any of the other lower mind attributes? If so, then this is the emotional level that you have gotten used to and resonate with. This can change!
Belief Statement: I am secure and confident in my surroundings and this feels joyful. I love it when people come in to share their successes and experiences with me. I gain joy and lose hesitation.
Spirit Statement: I am secure and confident in joy and love with success in experiencing joy and growth.
Now I am going to do one that is pretty below the lower mind:
Belief Statement: I resent the fact that she has disregarded giving me an opportunity to learn and grow and the way that she has handled this makes me feel confused. I don't understand how someone could do that to me. I gain confusion while losing focus.
Spirit Statement: I honor my way with focus and understanding of self with awareness and focus.
Wow...by looking at the spirit statement you can see this person is powerful and has to learn how to focus that energy on positive affirmations and light. When we see spirit calling out to an individual this clearly we can see they are attached to a pattern of self defeat. This is what we have witnessed after doing these processes with so many people. A person like this can hold a lot of resentment and try to use their power to destroy rather than lift up. It will only be through the persons ability to see the good in themselves that will alter their emotional tone.
People!!!! Wake up and realize the ascension is happening now.
Awareness opens the possibility for Alignment and the Willingness to Release. Free yourself of illusions within YOUR reality. What are you creating that makes you feel disempowered?
