I know I've spoken a lot about reflections and how higher and lower minds can communicate using symbols around us in our world. But when do we know when it's not for us? When do we or are we allowed to say this is not for me? Actually anytime you want to. If it's not for you then your world will remain pretty much unchanged and will flow with ease. If the message is a reflection for you then your world will be uncomfortable and not move so easily.
So how do we decide this for ourselves? By using dicernment!!!! Dicernment is a tool that we have been given to allow us to move towards what feels good to us or for us and to move away from what doesn't feel good or resonate with us. Since there is no right or wrong choice then discernment allows you the choice that is best for you.
We all have a variety of relationships we are in and play for other people. When things are uncomfortable it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to stay in that relationship because there is something to learn or discover, but maybe it's because you have completed what the relationship meant for you or the other person.
Does this mean we are unable to process this situation? Of course not. Remember when we process situations it allows spirit to enter into our hearts and allow us to move through life with a little more ease. Does it mean that the situation will complete be dissolved? Sometimes, but sometimes NOT. But Spirit never gives you more than you can handle and that's where processing comes in handy.
So here's my process for today:
Ego Statement:
I am trying to communicate clearly how I wish to proceed and move forward in life but I am feeling frustrated when others hold me back from my experiences. I am gaining frustration and anger while losing peace, time and energy.
Now if we take this statement we can see that I am feeling like I am being held back. So if I am in a relationship that does not match my energy or will power or energetic level then discernment tells us that this is not a good match and things need to be dissolved. Why? Because you must stay true to what it is you are doing without causing harm to others.
Spirit statement:
I communicate clearly my desire to move forward with life and feel peaceful because I encourage myself in my experiences with peace and love in time and energy.
After reading the spirit statement it is clear to me that I encourage myself to proceed and have always done so in my life. That I move through these experiences with love and peace and by doing so I have more time and energy.
This is soooo true. I have used discernment today and have felt on top of the world. Not because I have taken any thing from another but I have given myself something, LIFE. I can breath again!!!!